• Ceremony & Reception in Same Location (no travel time included)

• Includes first look

• Traditional Wedding Structure

2 p.m. Videographer/Photographer Arrives
Your videographer and photographer should arrive 30 minutes before the bride is ready. During this time, they can get shots of the dress, rings, invitation, etc.

2:15 p.m. Bridesmaids Are Ready; Bride’s Hair and Makeup Is Complete

The bridesmaids (as well as the mother of the bride and any other bridal suite VIPs) should be dressed and ready by the time the bride’s hair and makeup is complete. This way, everyone can be in the background of the photos featuring the bride getting dressed. If you want those super-cute photos of everyone together in matching robes, pencil these in after hair and makeup but before the bridesmaids put on their dresses.

2:30 p.m. Bride Gets Dressed

Once you're mostly dressed, now's the time to have the photographer capture those intimate moments of your maid of honor/mother/person of honor helping you zip up your dress and slip on your shoes. Make sure your mom has a role, too! Perhaps she helps with your earrings and jewelry, or adjusts your veil.

2:45 p.m. Bridal Portraits

Once you're fully dressed and ready, the photographer will focus on capturing some beautiful portrait and detail shots at pre-scouted locations around your venue.

3:10 - 3:30 p.m. Bridesmaids Photos

These photos are meant to be casual and fun, capturing the moments of celebration between the bride and her friends. If you want any special shots, such as toasting with Champagne, make sure you have the props ready (clean flutes, for instance).

3:30 p.m. First Look & Letter Reading

The (optional) first look is a special moment where you and your partner see each other for the first time, away from the hundreds of eyes that will be watching you exchange vows during the ceremony. You can choose also choose to read letters to one another during this time, which is often an incredible way to vow to one another privately, outside of the more public ceremony.

3:30 - 4:10 p.m. Portrait Photos Together

If you're opting for a first look, this is an ideal window of time for your photographer(s) to capture some intimate portraits of just the two of you at pre-scouted locations around your venue.

4:10 - 5:00 p.m. Wedding Party and Family Photos

Have your family meet, dressed and ready, in the lobby of your venue at about 4 p.m. Make sure your photographer has a shot list of every family combination you want captured, and designate a family member to help the photographer identify everyone. It will be much easier for your sibling or cousin to go find Aunt Linda if she wandered away because they already know who she is.

5:30 p.m. Start Time Listed on Wedding Invitation

Most weddings don't start at the actual start time listed on the invitation. Plan to start your ceremony about 15 minutes later than the invitation time. This gives guests a little extra time if they are running late and ensures all the seats will be filled! You don’t want anyone to miss your special moment due to traffic. Also, now's a great time to have some music playing to add to the ambiance and also indicate that the ceremony start time is indeed approaching.

5:45 - 6:15 p.m. Ceremony

This is the time block that varies the most for weddings. The time really depends on the type of ceremony you're having. Typically, non-religious ceremonies last around 20 minutes, while religious-based ceremonies can last up to an hour.

6:15 - 7:15 p.m. Cocktail Hour

Invite guests to cocktail hour while the two of you escape for some post-ceremony photos with the videographer & photographer. This will give you a much-needed break to re-energize for the rest of the night, and depending on how many photos you want to take, you can join cocktail hour halfway through or spend some time in the bridal suite having appetizers and drinks privately.

If you don't opt for a pre-wedding first look, this is also when you would traditionally take your photos together as well as family portraits and portraits with the entire bridal party.

7 p.m.(ish) Sunset Photos

Set aside time in your wedding itinerary to take additional portraits together during the 30 (or so) minutes leading up to sunset, which offers opportunities for some incredible natural lighting. The actual time of sunset varies widely, depending on where and what time of year you're getting married. In the winter months, pre-sunset photos may need to be scheduled for around 4 p.m.

7:15 p.m. Guests Invited to Dinner

Let guests know it's time to move into the dining room—if you're not already there—and sit down.

7:30 p.m. Grand Entrance and First Dance

Timing works great if you go from your grand entrance right into your first dance. This keeps the formalities and the fun going. You can dance for a full song for your first dance, or fade out two minutes in. You can also add a dance set consisting of three to five songs after the first dance to get the energy up before dinner.

7:35 - 7:45 p.m. Welcome Toasts From Hosts

The first two toasts in the wedding reception timeline are considered welcome toasts and they are typically offered by the parents or a family member of the newlyweds—traditionally, the father of the bride speaks first.

7:45 - 8:30 p.m. Dinner

Time to take a breath—and eat!

8:30 - 8:40 p.m. Bridal Party Toasts

As dinner is wrapping up, the best man and maid of honor can offer their toasts during this slot of the wedding schedule. For all toasts, set a time limit and recommend advising your speakers stay within that limit. I always say no more than five minutes.

8:40 - 8:50 p.m. Parent Dances

I recommend doing them immediately after the toasts, and then transition into an open dance floor. After the last official dance, switch to a high-energy music and have your band or DJ encourage everyone to join you on the dance floor.

9:30 - 9:45 p.m. Cake Cutting, Bouquet Toss, and Garter Toss

First up is the cake cutting, followed by bouquet toss and garter toss (if those are traditions you're keeping). This is also a good time for the newlyweds to say a few words and thank their guests for coming.

9:45 p.m. Open Dance Floor

Dance until the night ends!

11:30 p.m. Grand Exit

Arrange for a final song with your DJ or band ahead of time as well as to be alerted that the song is coming up. Say your final goodbyes and hug your final hugs. If you're having an exit with sparklers or other festive flair, have a designated member (or members) of your bridal party organize all the guests along your exit path and hand out the goods. When your final song comes on, grab hands and make a dash for happily ever after!

• Non-traditional, Elopement Structure

• Includes first look

• Ceremony on location, optional reception

12 p.m. Partner 1 & Partner 2 arrive at your mountainside Airbnb

12:30 p.m. Y'all hang out on the porch snacking on a light lunch, sipping coffee and video chatting your families (or perhaps they’re with you!).

1:30 p.m. Time to start suiting up! You can do this together, or separately to keep the surprise.

2 p.m. Let's go for a walk to a secret overlook spot for your first look at each other in your wedding clothes.

2:30 p.m. Wrap up last-minute packing and head out the door.

3:15 p.m. Arrive at the trailhead and hit the trail in your wedding clothes, hiking boots and packs! (Remember, this could be on foot or in a RZR/Jeep!)

4:30 p.m. Snack break by a beautiful creek (definitely put your feet in)

5:30 p.m. Still hiking, exploring, relaxing, talking, kissing, smelling wildflowers

7:30 p.m. This is it! Say your vows on the lake shore during golden hour!

8:30 p.m. Watch the sun set together on your wedding day!

• Non-traditional, multi-day Elopement Structure

• Includes first look

• Ceremony & Reception in Same Location

Day 1 An intentional, down-to-earth day that's all about connecting together.

3 p.m. We meet at the beach! We'll explore the low-tide for a while, checking out the tide pools and huge sea-stars, seaweed, crabs, shorebirds, spotting puffins through binoculars. Walk the beach as long as you like, getting excited for your wedding the next day. Crashing waves, feet in the sand.

5 p.m. Head into town for coffee or ice cream or both, pick up supplies for dinner at a farmers market

5:45 p.m. Back at your bayside villa, you two cook your favorite dinner together

6:30 p.m. Dinner, dessert and a shared bottle of wine on the balcony while you watch seals playing in the harbor

7:30 p.m. Splash of champagne in the hot tub to cap the day off.

Day 2 Your wedding day!

10 a.m. We'll bring y'all lattes from town for a bit more relaxing on the porch. This would be a great time to exchange your wedding gifts.

11 a.m. We'll caravan north a few hours along the coast, stopping at overlooks and viewpoints along the way

1 p.m. Break for lunch, you do your thing and we'll do ours!

3 p.m. Meet up at your family's coastal cottage to get into your wedding clothes. Hugs all around.

4 p.m. Walk the beach until we find the perfect rocky alcove for your ceremony

4:30 p.m. We'll kick the ceremony off and then do some portraits of the whole gang

5 p.m. Head back to the house for a beach-side catered dinner

6 p.m. Bonfire! Your BFF breaks out a guitar for your sweet first dance

7:30 p.m. We'll ditch the fam and head back down to the beach to catch the last rays of light before sunset on your first day of marriage.